Sunday, January 24, 2010

Hong Kong ... boots boots part II

Edwin and I were finally on our way to Hong Kong. I can't tell you how excited I was to be visiting the city and even more so seeing my good friend Billy. Billy and I hung out quite a bit while he was living and working in Houston. When he left Houston a year ago I was painfully reminded of when my first childhood friend moved away in elementary school. I find it difficult to really connect with people you can trust and confide in and also have them be honest with you and you with them. When I find these people, I really treasure them. Anyways, finally able to see Billy again was something special that I probably will not get to do often. I have to thank Edwin for agreeing to make this our one big travel trip for the year. He has to put up with me and that's not easy because it's an every day responsiblity.

From Beijing to Hong Kong we flew on Dragon Air. It was the best flight experience I ever had. The flight crew was nice with many smiles for each encounter. The seats were comfortable with enough leg room. The food was better than other flights although I can be biased since the food was Chinese cuisine. I also can't complain that they played "500 Days of Summer." Overall, it was a very pleasant trip.

When we landed in the Hong Kong area, the new airport was roughly an hour away from Kowloon which is where we stayed. Our hotel was a few months old and a few minutes from the old airport. Edwin noticed traffic was different first. First, the bus door is what would be America's driver side. The driver sits on the right which would be the passenger's side. Traffic is opposite from the US. It doesn't affect you much until you're a pedestrian. Thank goodness there were messages on the road directing you where to look. If not for those... well, let's not think about that. Everywhere we went, we saw girls in skirts, tights and boots and of course scarves. Boots were in: knee high, ankle, flats and heels. Hong Kong girls are quite trendy. Reminds me of New York.

We headed out to meet Billy for dinner. Of course when I see him, he's standing on the street corner working. Who knew Hong Kong street walkers were so high tech with laptops. HA! He took us to a noodle shop that had about 5 tables with 2 to 3 seats each. I am all about noodles that cost less than $2 USD and "hole-in-the-wall" type eateries (that describes about half of Hong Kong). I am not complaining. Later we headed to Lady Street where it's just booth after booth of t-shirts, belts, wallets, bags and bartering. I thought I was doing pretty well but Edwin did not agree at all. We did walk in with a strategy: "Don't be committed. Walk away." It's definitely a game. You have to act like you're not committed to buying. Make them committed to selling and you're golden.

The next day we headed to the East Asian Olympic Games to watch a couple volleyball matches. We watched Macau get destroyed by Japan. Honestly, watching a dominating team demolish another team is not fun. The second game we watched was China vs Hong Kong. Billy's friends were on the Hong Kong team. They put up a good fight against the real Chinese Olympic volleyball team. It looked like men (China) playing against college kids (Hong Kong). It was more exciting. The Chinese team is ridiculously tall. I wonder where they grew up. I can arrange a marriage for my future daughter, can't I?

We hung out in Times Square for dinner. Dinner was delightful. The waitstaff was entertained by me taking so many photos of food (at least they were nice). For dessert we headed to Lucky Dessert. All I can say is, fried crepes with mango and lady fingers is YUM! We actually went twice during our stay. We also went to Lan Kwai Fong. It's like 6th street on a hill. I take that back. It's like the Warehouse District in Austin, TX but on a hill. It's there that we saw the most diversity. Coming from the US and Texas it's odd not to see a diverse community.

The next day we had dim sum with Billy's friends and family. I sat next to a very adorable girl and spent most of my time getting her to warm up to me. She was so well behaved and sweet it made me want to have a child soon but that's still not likely. Billy took us up to his home where he has an amazing water view from every window. I've never seen a view like this from any home. It's absolutely beautiful. That view was ended quickly when Billy rushed us out to go visit the Peak. Of course the night wouldn't come to an end without dinner. Did someone say SUSHI? I don't know about you but there's no sushi restaurant in Houston where three people could eat, be full, spend about $50USD and still have left overs.

Our last full day in Hong Kong would be the last day I would see Billy for a while. I'm so glad he met us for lunch at Shark Fin City in Times Square. I absolutely love shark fin soup. I know it's terrible to kill sharks and I shouldn't eat it. I know! It's so delicious though. After lunch, I said good bye to Billy. I'll be honest, there were tears. They were all from me. Thanks to my love, Edwin, he cheered me up. We found a bakery and we found Lucky Dessert and he helped me flood my sorrows of sadness in food. Then, my love took me shopping. Shopping in Hong Kong is fabulous. If I could go shopping in Hong Kong when ever I had the urge I would be in love (minus the space travel). Lucky for me, most of everything was "one size fits all". You can't try anything on mainly because there is no space for fitting rooms. I did find this amazing mall with a lot of boutiques that were screaming for me. Thank goodness for being small.

Hong Kong is like New York City except with all Chinese people, better food and better shopping at a lower cost. Travel to Hong Kong is not cheap so I guess it evens out if compared to New York. If Hong Kong was closer, I would definitely go back often. Although since Billy moved to Beijing I guess it means I have to go back to Beijing one day. There's a lot of British influence in terms of traffic, architecture, public transportation, etc. I can't imagine it any other way. It makes me wonder where China would be if not for isolationism. Not that I wanted China to be ruled by the British but again, China probably would be farther along (in my optimistic mind).

Now to answer my curious brain:
  • How much do I stand out from other Asians? Not much or at all
  • Am I really that much smaller than other people? Is Edwin that much taller than other Asians? I am pretty small period. I would consider Edwin tall in Hong Kong.
  • How American are we really? We're pretty American but not so much that Hong Kong realizes it. Compared to China, we're very American.
  • Is the food better in the "mother" country? I couldn't tell if Beijing had good food since we ate at all the tourist places. Peking duck in Beijing is pretty darn tasty. Hong Kong for sure had good food. Edwin and I think that Houston has great food too and just as affordable. There is more Asian variety but Houston is getting there.
  • Will we get a cultural shock that some people talk about? Not as much since we are Chinese but a tad... not enough to be like... "WHOA!"
  • Will we be able to get around with the amount of Chinese we know? Not too shabby. Edwin knew enough Mandarin to get around Beijing. Our English helped us through Hong Kong. Note: When ordering bubble tea in Asia, it's better to ask for "zhing zhu" instead of "boba". Just a bit of funny "haha-ness" for my Mandarin speaking peeps. ~_^
If my words were too much, here's some photos of Hong Kong.

Miss you Billy! Thanks for taking us around Hong Kong. I hope this won't be the last time I see you (minus gchat).

Tuesday, January 12, 2010

Hong Kong ... boots boots part I

Still no internet service in Hong Kong so twitter notes are continued.


December 4, 2009 -------

E: You're always thinking about food. You have a eating disorder.
M: I don't eat a lot. I just think about food all the time.
E: It's a mental thing.
M: Who said I was sane?
#lowerexpectations

Whoa... it's like we're in the matrix o_O #highriseliving

BILLYYYYYYYY!!!!!!

Found Billy working the street corner... just as I had left him. #oldtimes

Girls, skirts, tights and boots. O_O #everywhere

Mmm... wonton noodles and a drink for less than $2/person ($13 HK dollars). #iloveHongKong.

December 5, 2009 -------

B: Do you want to do anything tourist-y?
M/E: Eeh... We're casual tourists. There's the island... Wow, cool, ok... where's the food? #lazytourists #myasshurts

hehehe ~_^ ... #everythingbecomessexualreferences #billy

Japan dominated Macau #eastasianolympics #volleyball #possiblyhighschoolplayers

China vs Hong Kong 3-0 #therealchineseolympicteam #theyarehuge #thatswhatshesaid #demsometallChinesemofos

Public transportation rocks! #doubledeckerbus #ifeeltall #MTRsubway #notinHouston

So this is where all the white people are... #HongKongIsland #itslike6thStonahill

December 6, 2009 -------

Woo Hoo! A building loaded with tiny boutiques. #mykindofshopping #TimesSquare #nopictures note: behind SoGo

Shark fin soup @ Shark Fin City! #yesIknowitsbad #itssooogood

:'( Billy...

More Shopping! Yay! ^_^

Look for one with a lot of Chinese people. #weareinHongKong #hungry #semilostinHK

December 7, 2009 -------

Last morning in HK and finally there's a family I can understand. Poor guy... uncle told him he was a "cute chubby one." :) #score

Sadness... leaving Hong Kong #itsraining #byeBilly #missyaBilly

PANDA! #500daysofsummer #noItsElf ... come on @unitedairlines, show semi-new movies on int'l flights pls.

We're so close to the stars ^_^ #spacetravel #itsactuallynight

AARRGGHHHHHH!!! Second time I freaking spilled my drink all over myself... #HELLO #poorMac

AARRGGHHHHHH!!! I can't sit anymore! @southwest #betterseatsandmorelegroom @unitedairlines #flyingeconomyintlsucks #willflyadiffairlines #harrypottermovie

I'm moving my legs into @fuh23's space #becauseIcan #pocketsizeperks

More about Hong Kong continued...

Tuesday, December 15, 2009

ABC in Beijing ... part II

My overall experience of Beijing? I honestly wouldn't go again without someone who lives there. We had a tour guide and a driver to our self but they took us to all the government owned factories to 1. learn about how they made jade, vases, silk, etc. and 2. to get you to spend as much money as possible. I suggested that we go shopping where the locals go shopping and the they dropped us off at a shopping center area the first night. I also suggested to go to 798 Art district in Beijing and the driver complained it was too far (20 minutes from our hotel) the second night. Needless to say we did not get to go. After multiple requests to be dropped off at the hotel they kept us out all day until the Kung Fu show where I was insistent that they take us back to the hotel after. We left for Hong Kong the next morning.

The government is everywhere and it's not subtle. And I can't help but feel like everyone's trying to get more under the table. It's hard to feel comfortable that everyone you meet is genuine and honest because they are not. In a world where trust is already hard to come by, Beijing is not a city where I would trust at all. The Chinese Army is visible no matter where you go. The police are of course seen as much as the army. I couldn't live there. I mean I could if I had to but I'd have to learn Mandarin quick. Since everything is in Chinese characters, I'd have to learn that too. I know Chinese but my dialect isn't "major." Beijing is not the most tourist friendly town. I wonder if it would ever be because I still wish China never did close off their country to the foreign world roughly a hundred years or so ago. (Here's a history lesson: Isolationism of the Ming/Qing Dynasty: Source 1; Source 2; Source3). With inventing so many things throughout history, I really believe they could be more advanced than they are now. It saddens me actually. Hopefully the Chinese government won't find this blog post since I had so much trouble getting a Chinese Visa this time around. I'm sure I will be interrogated even more so next time. Really though, it's only because I stated on my application that I work for the media.

Don't take me as a Debbie downer. I am not. I want to go back to Beijing but I'd rather experience it with a local not as a tourist. As Edwin says, "We are casual tourists." We like to see the tourist spots but we're more into living the local life and eating the local food.

The best things about Beijing? Dr. Tea's pee pee boy, my paper cutting art pieces and Peking Duck. Oh and of course a 6 to 1 conversion of the U.S. dollar (6RMB Chinese money equals $1). I also used one of those hole in the ground toilets. Honestly I prefer it... it's a lot easier to squat and I don't have to worry about my butt touching a dirty seat. I didn't say it was more comfortable but to me it seems more sanitary. (Here's a picture of a Chinese toilet.) If words couldn't describe our Beijing trip well enough... here's some amateur photos I took with my point and shoot camera: BEIJING PHOTOS

No worries. I will answer my curious questions but for now... on to Hong Kong!

Saturday, December 12, 2009

ABC in Beijing ... part I

This was Edwin and my first trip to China, second trip out of the states for me. Edwin is a little more world traveled than I but still I'm eager to fill up our passports with as many stamps as possible. And, since we're heading to China, I'm a little curious about a few things...
  • How much do I stand out from other Asians?
  • Am I really that much smaller than other people? Is Edwin that much taller than other Asians?
  • How American are we really?
  • Is the food better in the "mother" country?
  • Will we get a cultural shock that some people talk about?
  • Will we be able to get around with the amount of Chinese we know?
I planned to be disconnected from the world I knew for a couple weeks. Unfortunately China blocks social media sites and wifi isn't very "available" so I kept my tweets on my AK Notepad app on my G1. Hopefully you can follow along but it's not as if my regular tweets ever made sense either. So here goes, my trip by way of what I would have tweeted in 140 characters (or more).

November 30, 2009 -------------


Hell is other people. --- that's a new one to me #theanswerman


Am I the first to see your monsters? #thatswhatshesaid #theanswerman


Got corrected by the drink server for not saying please... MY BAD? #feelbadforyou #morningbreathelastslongeronflight @unitedairlines sucks

I love Rachel McAdams movies - too bad I tried to watch the Time Traveler's Wife twice and passed out at the end... twice #dimplesrule #ionlyhaveoneandahalf

You can't do this. I showed you my monsters! #theanswerman

December 1, 2009 (one day lost due to time/space travel) -------------

I've seen straight sunlight since I left Houston @ 820am... it's 12 hours later. #shadesaredowntofakenight

Good thing I played vball Sunday ... makes this time travel more bareable. #icantsitanymore #ifijumpwillifeelzerogravity #ijumpinelevators

If my feet swell while I'm on this flight does that mean my boobies and butt are swollen too? #justcurious

FINALLY! After 80 min 5 seconds I won the spider solitaire game... #slow #notmyfastesttime #iblametimetravel

Beijing Airport -------------

I feel like we're in Monsters, Inc. At any moment we'll see a bunch of yellow suited officials jumping some careless unsuspecting foreigner screaming "2319!" #plsbeme

Who would have guessed I'd possibly be infected by a virus from the US? #coughheresagiftchina #h1n1 #seriouslyJK

"Please take your belongings and GET OFF THE TRAIN." #dontcarewhereyougo #directtranslationsareawesome

Chang An Grand Hotel -------------

Wow... now I see why they say Americans are rude. #learnChinesecustomsfaster

Holy cow... how do you turn on the lights? #itsdark #paranormalactivityfollwedmetochina

Hi Chinese tv? I can't speak or understand Mandarin; therefore I can't read Chinese subtitles either. #racialdiscrimenation #wtharetheysaying? #iamtheotherchinese

Missed dinner and all the fancy flashing lights are out. #nothingtodoforlatenightowls #stupidamericans #damnjetlag

No one understands iced tea. #thereisnoicehere #novendingmachinesinhotel

December 2, 2009 -------------

It's 2:55 am in Beijing and I am still on Houston time - 1:55 pm #timeforlunch #itsdark #gobacktosleep #sigh

Oh! Food! Hot pot! #iamhungry #wearenotstopping :(

I wonder if they have a "Red Lantern" district... would it be inappropriate to ask our tour guide? #pervertsinBeijing #badtourists

@fuh23 is right... I am fake Chinese #pssshhh #whatareyousaying

Look! There's white people. #itsagame #itsfun #dontbesosensitive

All of these buildings and rooms look the same. It's like a maze. #ForbiddenCity #greathidenseekplace

There is minimal grass here. No wonder 9man plays on concrete. #vballreference #paranoidChineseppl #forbiddencity

I.can't.walk.anymore. #forbiddencity #tianamensquare #summerpalace

Summer Palace is way nicer... no wonder the women rule this palace. #grassandtreesarepretty #icouldlivehere #iamnotroyaltysoicant

Girl: Excuse me miss? Your food is ready. Excuse me? Hello? Me: d'oh that's me ok... #IjustlookChinese

@fuh23 & I are always hungry right about US lunch time... which ends up being 11pm or so. #weirdoAmericans

Beyonce is hot. If I had her trunk I would shake it too. #sweetdream #JayZisaluckyguy

December 3, 2009 -------------

My butt is sore from all the trekking. Oh Great Wall ... please be kind #miniChineseroadtrip

The Chinese do amazing things with rocks. #thatswhatshesaid

Two women carrying a cage full of dead pidgeons. #eeeeek #ijustate :(

@fuh23 just asked me if I was going to twit blog this whole thing. #hetries #itscute

Who knew pee pee boys would be a selling point? #drtea #reallycuteinstructor #ilovetea

42F and an hour ride on a rickshaw? #someoneisonsomemajoropium

Silk worms... #theChineseareslick #wolfinsheepsclothing #yesiamChinese

Whoa! Africans in the house #entourage #firstsighting #Chinaisnotdiverse

December 4, 2009 -------------

500 Days of Summer! Duck lunch... so fancy! #iloveDragonAir @standrewchang

I believe ... the end of one "sad chapter" brings the beginning of a happier one. #500daysofsummer #flyingmakesmesentimental

Destiny is for people who believe in fairy tales. And those who don't... maybe they're in denial. #ignoranceisbliss #randomness

Everything happens for a reason. It's up to each to figure out why. #randomness

Lady mines her cave while keeping her treasures between her fingers then throws them on the floor #ineedrubbergloves #masksareineffectual

Pee pee boy! Don't jump! The trip has only just begun :) #peepeeboywillbeworldtraveled

to be continued...

Saturday, September 19, 2009

Car passenger etiquette

Remember when you just got your license and your friends were so excited because now they're not caged up at home? That whole, "I'm 16 and I have my license and I am FREE!" feeling is awesome. Your friends hop in and you all have fun going to the beach or the local mall or just going out to lunch or just cruising around (because you think you're cool like that). Your friends chat with you and now you have memories of good times. Well, I'm years from being that 16 year old and passengers aren't always that fun anymore, unfortunately. There are a few expectations I have for passengers and car etiquette that I think everyone should read and note for future information.

Main responsibility of the passenger?
Assist the driver to safely and successfully get from point A to point B.
keyword = assist

  • Stay awake! You can not assist the driver while sleeping. If there are more than 2 people in the automobile and you can't stay awake then sit in the back seat.
  • Navigate. The passenger is the navigator. This is especially relevant if you are taking a road trip or going somewhere that the driver is not knowledgeable of the area. You have a GPS? Well the driver is not supposed to operate that while driving so that means the passenger is in charge of it. If you can't work the GPS, you have a bad sense of direction, you don't know the area or you just suck at directions sit in the back seat.
  • Watch for other drivers. Pay attention and be aware of slow drivers or fast drivers and cops or other random things on the street like boxes or ladders (seriously).
  • Make conversation. Talking to the driver helps keep them awake because if you're in the car in traffic or driving long distances, it gets boring. If you're going to be in the car with anyone you might as well take that time to get to know them. I'm sure you don't know all your drivers that well where there's nothing to talk about. If that's the case, sit in the back seat.
  • Don't talk on your phone the whole ride or text the whole time. That is inconsiderate since you're the passenger (even if you're in the back seat).
  • Music entertainment etiquette is what? Permission based. YES that is correct! If it's not your car and you're not driving you don't get to choose the musical entertainment unless the driver specifically says it's ok. Don't touch the radio or put in a cd or turn it off without permission. Can you say, "Mother may I?" No? Sit in the back seat.
Did I miss any other "common sense" knowledge about being a automobile passenger? Leave me a comment and tell me about it.


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